Think you’ve got what it takes to be the ultimate partner? Well, here’s your chance to prove it! This isn’t just any ultimate partner form—it’s a playful deep dive into what makes you the catch of the century. Whether you’re a laid-back Netflix enthusiast or an adventurous thrill-seeker, we want to know all about your quirks, your guilty pleasures, and what makes your weekends perfect. Don’t worry, this isn’t a test (no wrong answers here!), but by the end, you’ll have a little more insight into the fabulous person you are. So, take the plunge and let’s see what kind of partner magic you bring to the table!

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Fun Disclaimer: “Psst, we know this form is catered to the fabulous over-40 crowd, but hey, if you’re in your 20s or 30s, you’re welcome too! We’re excited to hear your take on things—after all, it’s never too early to start thinking about the future!”

Name *

(First name only—I don’t need to Google you just yet)

Drop Your Email (We Won't Blow Up Your Inbox) *

Who do you live with?Just me, myself, and I (I love my space!)My kids (They keep me on my toes!)A roommate (Or as I like to call them, my unpaid therapist)My pet(s)—they’re the real boss of the houseMy partner—we’ve got a cozy thing goingFamily—because home is where the heart isIt’s complicated—let’s just say there’s never a dull moment!

Age (Let’s keep it real) *20-29 – “Just figuring life out”30-39 – “Adulting like a pro… or trying to”40-49 – “Life begins at 40!”50-59 – “Fifty and fabulous!”60-69 – “Still got it (and then some)!”70+ – “Living my best life, wisdom included.”

Phone Number (No Creepy calls, We Swear!)

Your Current Coordinates (No Stalking, Promise) *

What's Your 9-to-5 Hustle?Corporate warrior – I’m in the 9-to-5 grindEntrepreneur – I run the showCreative genius – Writer, artist, designer—you name it, I create itHealthcare hero – Saving lives, one day at a timeTech guru – Coding, hacking, or keeping the internet aliveTeacher/Mentor – Educating the next generationFreelancer – Living the freelance life, one project at a timeRetail/Service industry – People person, always on my feet!Student – Still learning and levelling upStay-at-home superhero – Running the household like a bossRetired – Living the good life nowOther – I don’t fit neatly into a box!

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What’s your current relationship status? *

• Single and ready to mingle
• Single and enjoying my “me time”
• In a relationship—things are going well!
• It’s complicated—do you have a couch and some time?
• Divorced, but I’ve got a new chapter ahead
• Recently single—dipping my toes back in the dating pool
• Widowed, but open to new possibilities

What type of relationship are you looking for now?Long-Term Commitment – I’m ready to find my person and settle downCasual Dating – Let’s take it easy, have fun, and see where things goFriends First – I’m open to romance, but let’s start with friendshipNo Strings Attached (NSA) – I’m just looking for something fun and laid-backEthical Non-Monogamy (ENM) – Open to exploring connections with more than one partner, with full transparencyNot Sure Yet – I’m still figuring out what I want, but I’m open to possibilities!Adventure Partner – Let’s have some fun and see if sparks fly during our adventuresCompanionship – Looking for someone to enjoy life with, no pressure or expectations

Which of these qualities matters the most to you in a relationship? Feel free to tap, select or claim as many as your heart desires-no one's judging! *

• Trust – Without it, what’s the point?
• Communication – We need to talk, but not just about what’s for dinner
• Sense of humour – If we can’t laugh together, it’s a no-go
• Loyalty – Ride or die, I’m all about commitment
• Respect – Mutual respect is key, even when we don’t agree
• Shared values – Being on the same page about the important stuff
• Fun – We should be having a blast together, always!
• Adventure – Keeping life exciting and unpredictable
• Independence – I need someone who can give me space when I need it
• Kindness – The little things matter. Kindness goes a long way!
• Physical chemistry – Let’s be real, sparks are important
• Support – We’ve got to have each other’s backs, no matter what
• Honestly, I want it all!

How do you approach making big decisions in a relationship?

• I like to discuss everything together—it’s all about teamwork
• I think things through carefully but make the final call on my own
• I trust my gut and make decisions on the fly
• I avoid big decisions until I absolutely have to make them!
• I ask for advice from close friends or family before deciding

How do you feel about dating right now?

• Excited—bring on the swipes!
• Cautiously optimistic—I’m open, but no games, please
• A bit nervous—haven’t done this in a while!
• I’m taking it slow—testing the waters
• Ready to dive headfirst—let’s do this!

Is long distance okay?Yes, love knows no boundaries (or time zones)No, I need someone who can be here for takeout and NetflixMaybe, if there are plenty of frequent flyers miles involved!

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Do you have pets?Yes, and they're my worldNo, but I love other people's petsYes, but they're more like roommates , who never pay rentNope, I'm more of a plant person

What kind of Pet do you have?

• Dog(s)—because who doesn’t love a wagging tail?
• Cat(s)—I live to serve my feline overlord.
• Fish—low maintenance, but they really listen
• Exotic pet—I like to keep things interesting!
• No pets, but I’m ready for one!

How does your pet feel about new people?

• They love everyone and anyone—instant best friends!
• They need some time, but once they warm up, they’re sweet
• They pretend other humans don’t exist
• They’ll judge you, but don’t take it personally

Who runs your household?

• My dog(s)—they’re in charge of everything
• My cat(s)—I just pay the bills
• It’s a power struggle, but I like to think it’s me
• Me! (Or at least that’s what I tell myself.)

How much do you spoil your pet?

• They have more toys than I do
• They’re spoiled, but I try to keep it balanced
• I spoil them when they earn it
• I’d spoil them, but they’re too independent to care

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What’s the best part about being over 40?

• I don’t care about drama anymore
• I’m a pro at ignoring texts I don’t like
• I know exactly what I want in life—most of the time
• I wear my confidence like a comfy sweater—it just fits
• I’ve earned the right to prioritize my peace over people-pleasing

What’s the Best Part About Being in Your 20s or 30s?

• Figuring things out – It’s an adventure every day
• Unlimited energy – I can stay up past midnight without consequences!
• Freedom – I’m living life on my own terms
• Endless possibilities – The world’s my oyster
• Youthful charm – Still getting carded, and loving it!

Describe yourself in three words: *

• Fun, spontaneous, and totally awesome
• Organized, thoughtful, and snack-obsessed
• Charming, funny, and (of course) humble
• Adventurous, curious, and always up for a challenge
• Relaxed, witty, and a pro at life’s simple pleasures

What’s your secret talent? (No, binge-watching Netflix doesn’t count):

• I’m a kitchen wizard—watch out, Gordon Ramsay!
• I can fix anything… with the right YouTube tutorial
• My karaoke skills will blow your mind (or your ears)
• I can make anyone laugh—even on bad days
• I remember every random fact—Jeopardy, here I come!
• All of the above (obviously, I’m a catch)

What’s your guilty pleasure TV show or movie? (Be honest, it’s okay to admit you love rom-coms)

• Reality TV—don’t judge, it’s a guilty pleasure!
• Rom-coms—I mean, who doesn’t love a happy ending?
• Crime dramas—I like to think I could solve the case
• Cooking competitions—getting tips for my next dinner party
• Superhero movies—because saving the world never gets old
• Thrillers – Because a good plot twist keeps you on your toes

What’s your relationship with exercise?

• I’ll do it if there’s pizza at the finish line
• I’m an athlete trapped in a 40-something-year-old’s body
• Exercise? Oh, you mean “walking to the fridge”?

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Which best describes your attitude towards first dates? *

• I’m all in—bring on the fireworks!
• Let’s just keep it casual and relaxed
• I’m here for the fun and the conversation
• I’m hoping for a spark, but I’m fine with a slow burn

What’s Your Go-To Move on a First Date? *

• Fancy dinner—because why not start with style?
• Casual drinks—it’s laid-back, no pressure
• Deep conversation over coffee—let’s get to know each other
• A fun activity like bowling or hiking—it’s about the experience!
• Spontaneous adventure (but only if it doesn’t involve heights or early mornings)
• Netflix, pizza, and a solid 10 hours of sleep

How do you feel about texting?

• I prefer to text you funny memes
• I’m more of a ‘call and chat’ person (old school)
• Texting’s fine, but let’s meet in person soon—talk is cheap

Are you the type to send a “good morning” text?

• Only if I want to impress
• Daily without fail—I’m that human
• Nah, I believe in the element of surprise

Which is your biggest pet peeve?

• People who don’t respond to texts
• Over-sharers on social media
• People who can’t make decisions (Seriously, just pick the restaurant!)

What’s a major deal breaker for you?

• Someone who can’t decide where to eat
• People who text “k” instead of “okay
• When they don’t love dogs (huge red flag!)
• Bad table manners—nope!

What’s your most embarrassing dating moment?

• Accidentally called them by the wrong name – Whoops!
• Spilled food/drink all over myself – A classic move
• Tripped or fell in front of them – I meant to do that…
• Talked way too much about my ex –Yikes
• Forgot my wallet and couldn’t pay – I’ll Venmo you…promise
• Accidentally texted them something meant for a friend – Oops, wrong chat!
• Realized I had something in my teeth the whole time – Why didn’t they tell me?
• Showed up way overdressed (or underdressed) – Can’t recover from that one
• Went in for a hug but they went for a handshake – Awkward dance moves
• Said something super cringey without realizing – Still haunts me to this day
• Got lost trying to find the place – I’m just “fashionably late,” right?

How do you handle rejection?

• Brush it off and move on
• Cry into a pillow and listen to sad music
• Rejection? Never heard of it, I’m irresistible!

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Favorite kind of concert?

• Outdoor music festivals (I’m all about the experience)
• Cozy, intimate acoustic gigs
• Arena shows (Bring on the energy!)
• Classical performances (Orchestras and sophistication)
• None of the above—I’m more of a homebody with headphones

What’s your idea of a perfect weekend? *

• Hiking or being outdoors (Nature is my therapy)
• Netflix and takeout (Lazy weekends are the best)
• Going out with friends for drinks and laughs
• Reading and relaxing (Give me a good book and quiet)

What are you most likely to do on a free evening?

• Cook a fancy dinner or try a new recipe
• Hit the gym or go for a run
• Work on a creative project (writing, painting, etc.)
• Curl up with a good book or binge-watch a series
• Head to a bar or club (I love the nightlife)

Which hobby do you think makes you the most interesting? *

• Cooking (My food can melt hearts)
• Sports or fitness (I’m always up for a challenge)
• Traveling (I’ve got stories from all over)
• Music or art (I’m creative, baby!)
• None, but I make up for it with personality!

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What’s your go-to music genre?

• Classic rock (I still think it’s 1975)
• 80s pop (Big hair, big hits)
• Jazz and blues (I’m smooth like that)
• Hip-hop and rap (I’ve got the moves)
• Classical (I’m sophisticated, obviously)
• EDM- For when you need a beat drop in your life
• Indie – Because discovering new music makes you cooler
• K-Pop – Where fandom meets fashion

What type of books do you usually reach for?

• Thrillers and mysteries (I love a good twist)
• Self-help and personal growth (Always leveling up)
• Romance (Love stories give me life)
• Fantasy and sci-fi (I’m all about escaping reality)
• Historical fiction (Time travel, but with facts!)
• Non-fiction (Give me all the knowledge)

What type of podcasts do you enjoy the most?

• True crime (I’m obsessed with solving mysteries)
• Self-improvement and motivation (Let’s get inspired!)
• Comedy (Laughter is the best medicine)
• Current events or news (I like to stay informed)
• Storytelling podcasts (I’m here for the drama and plot twists)
• I don’t listen to podcasts—I prefer music!

If you could only read one kind of book or listen to one type of podcast for the rest of your life, what would it be? *

• Self-improvement (Never stop learning!)
• Thrillers (Keeps me on my toes)
• Romance (Love conquers all, right?)
• Fantasy (I’m escaping into another world)
• Historical or Non Fiction (I need substance)

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What’s your approach to food?

• I’m a proud carnivore—bring on the steak!
• Vegetarian—let’s keep it plant-based
• Vegan—I’m all about the veggies
• I’m a foodie—I’ll try anything once!
• I’m still trying to figure out what I like!

How do you feel about alcohol?

• Wine, beer, cocktails—yes, please!
• Social drinker—I enjoy a drink with friends
• Occasionally, but I’m not big on drinking
• Nope, not for me—I’m alcohol-free

Do you smoke?

• Yes – But I’m trying to cut back!
• Yes – I’ve got my routine, and I stick to it
• Only socially – Just when I’m out with friends
• Nope, never been my thing
• I quit – And I’m never going back!

How do you feel about cannabis or other recreational substances?

• Totally fine—I’m all about relaxing
• On occasion, but nothing too wild
• Not my thing—thanks, though!

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What’s the weirdest food combo you secretly love?

• Peanut butter and pickles
• French fries dipped in ice cream
• Pizza and ranch dressing
• I prefer to keep my food combos normal, thank you!

What’s your most-used emoji? *

• 😂
• ❤️
• 😎
• 🙄

If you could time travel, what era would you visit?

• The ‘80s – Big hair, big music!
• The ‘60s – Peace, love, and rock ‘n’ roll
• The future – I need to see how this all ends!
• I’m happy right here in the present

Do you love to travel?

• Yes! I have my passport ready
• I like to, but I need my comfort zone
• I’m more of a staycation kind of person

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Our personality insights are based on widely accepted principles of psychology and common dating behaviors across different age groups. While this form is designed to be fun and light-hearted, it reflects core personality traits and dating preferences found in social psychology. Whether you’re in your 20s, 30s, 40s, or beyond, you’ll find insights that resonate. For a deeper dive into dating and relationships, check out some of these research-backed articles:

1. Big Five Personality Traits and Relationships

2. The Gottman Institute on Love and Communication

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